There’s something quietly magical about the bond between a child and a pet. Whether it’s the loyal wag of a dog’s tail, the soothing hum of an aquarium, or the gentle rustle of a guinea pig munching lettuce, pets offer more than just companionship — they provide emotional, developmental, and even therapeutic benefits for children.
In Australia, where families might have backyards big enough for a Border Collie or just a small balcony suitable for a budgie, pets come in many shapes and sizes. But when it comes to children — especially those with unique developmental needs — some pets stand out for their supportive superpowers.
At Camp Blue, we know that connection, responsibility, and confidence don’t just grow in the classroom — they flourish through hands-on experiences and meaningful relationships, whether with people or animals.
“Pets are humanising. They remind us we have an obligation and responsibility to preserve and nurture and care for all life.”
– James Cromwell
The Benefits of Pets for Children
Research and everyday experience both tell us that pets can play a significant role in children’s emotional and social development. Here’s how:
- Responsibility and Routine: Feeding, walking, grooming — these daily tasks help kids develop responsibility, empathy, and time management skills.
- Emotional Regulation: Animals don’t judge. They don’t talk back (well, maybe the cockatoo does), and they offer unconditional affection. For anxious children, this can be incredibly soothing.
- Social Confidence: Pets often act as social bridges. A child who struggles with peer interaction might find it easier to connect with others through shared interest in animals.
- Sensory Comfort: Stroking a pet, listening to their breathing or even watching fish swim can help calm overstimulated nervous systems.
Best Pets for Kids (and What to Consider)
Not all pets are created equal, and what works for one family might be a disaster for another. Here’s a quick guide to some child-friendly animals, and which needs they tend to support well:
>> Dogs
Best for: Emotional support, children with ASD, ADHD, and anxiety.
Dogs — particularly breeds known for their gentle temperament, like Labradors, Golden Retrievers, and even some rescue mixes — are amazing companions. Trained therapy or companion dogs can help children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) manage transitions, reduce meltdowns, and even improve social interaction.
Pros: Loyal, affectionate, great for active kids.
Considerations: High maintenance. Need time, space, and money. Allergy risk for some.
>> Cats
Best for: Anxious children, those who prefer quiet companionship.
Independent yet affectionate, cats are a good match for kids who enjoy closeness but also value calm and quiet. They tend to bond deeply and offer a soothing presence without the boisterous energy of dogs.
Pros: Low maintenance, excellent lap warmers.
Considerations: Some breeds can be aloof; allergies are a factor for many kids.
>> Guinea Pigs
Best for: Younger children, those with sensory processing sensitivities.
These gentle, social creatures are excellent “starter pets.” They thrive on routine, love cuddles, and make soft noises that can be quite calming. They’re also a great pet for kids with ADHD who benefit from predictable, manageable responsibilities.
Pros: Social, relatively easy to care for, no loud noises.
Considerations: Need companionship (don’t buy just one), sensitive to temperature changes.
>> Fish (Aquarium)
Best for: Children with ASD, anxiety, sensory issues.
There’s a reason fish tanks are a staple in waiting rooms. Watching fish glide through water can lower anxiety and promote mindfulness. Fish don’t offer touch-based bonding, but they create a serene presence.
Pros: Calming to watch, hypoallergenic.
Considerations: Water chemistry and tank cleaning require adult oversight.
>> Birds (Budgies, Cockatiels)
Best for: Children who enjoy auditory stimulation and routines.
Birds can be very social and interactive. Budgies, in particular, are clever little chatterboxes that enjoy being part of the action. They’re a great option for kids with speech delays or social difficulties — talking to a bird is a low-pressure way to practice language.
Pros: Intelligent, entertaining, often bond well with their humans.
Considerations: Can be noisy, need frequent cleaning, and not ideal for households with allergies or asthma.
>> Reptiles (Bearded Dragons, Lizards)
Best for: Kids with allergies or who prefer calm, quiet animals.
Reptiles are fascinating to observe and can be handled gently. Bearded dragons in particular are surprisingly affectionate and hardy. With proper care (and heat lamps), they can make for wonderful companions for curious, quiet kids.
Pros: Hypoallergenic, calm, unique.
Considerations: Special habitat requirements, not cuddly.
Tips for Choosing the Right Pet
- Think Long-Term: Pets live for years. Choose one that suits your family’s lifestyle now and in the foreseeable future.
- Trial Runs Help: Consider pet-sitting or volunteering at a shelter to see how your child interacts with animals before committing.
- Go Low-Allergy: For children with asthma or allergies, poodle-mix dogs or hairless cats might be suitable. Reptiles and fish are also great alternatives.
- Teach Before You Get: Practice handling and care using stuffed animals or books before the real thing arrives.
A Word on Rescue Pets
Adopting from local shelters can be a fantastic way to find gentle, family-friendly pets who just want a second chance. Many rescues in Australia — like RSPCA or PetRescue — have detailed profiles to help match the right pet to the right home.
Final Thoughts: Pets as Partners
Pets aren’t magic fixes — they don’t replace therapy, structure, or medical support. But they can be remarkable partners in a child’s journey toward confidence, calm, and compassion.
Whether it’s a sleepy cat curled up beside a book-loving introvert, or an energetic dog bounding through the yard with a child bursting with kinetic energy, the right pet can be more than just an animal. They can be a friend, a teacher, and a loyal co-pilot on life’s great adventure.
Resources
Adoption and Rescue Organisations
- RSPCA Australia – Adopt a Pet: Australia’s most well-known animal welfare organisation. You can search for available pets by state and get guidance on choosing the right animal for your family.
- PetRescue: A nationwide non-profit connecting people with rescue pets from hundreds of shelters and foster carers. Easy search tools and lots of pet profiles with personality details.
Pet Care & Health Resources
- RSPCA Knowledgebase: A brilliant resource covering everything from pet behaviour and training to housing, nutrition, and health — great for first-time pet families.
- Better Health Channel – Pets and Children: Government-run site with practical advice on the health and safety aspects of having pets in a household with children.
Allergy-Friendly Pet Advice
- Allergy & Anaphylaxis Australia: Information on managing pet-related allergies in children, including alternatives and tips for reducing allergens in the home.
Assistance and Therapy Animals
- Assistance Dogs Australia: Trains and places assistance dogs for people with physical disabilities, PTSD, and children with autism. The site includes eligibility information and how to apply.
- Therapy Dogs Australia: Offers animal-assisted therapy and training for therapy dog teams across schools and communities.
